It All Comes Down to Love
- technochroma
- May 19
- 3 min read
Updated: May 20
It all comes down to love: Choice and Causality - an original theory I came up with between 2012-2016. Others may have tried to appropriate this, ignore them.
It occurs to me that any good relationship can viably originate from complementary opposites. I may not always agree with those who I love, but there is something sacred about how energies meld and soothe.
Kind of like a base added to acid, the forgiveness - compromise - the grasp and the give are the solution.
Also see Alchemy and the Machine.
Life is choice. We all have free will. We all have a Choice. There are strong and weak forces without or within, but in love and life Source gave us free will, so we can always choose.
Life is a series of causality, interaction, cause and effect. Like the Universe, humans go through cycles of attracting & repelling. We choose those whom we truly love. We benefit most from the Good and Pure. The altruistic and the agape. There is balance in all things though, and the Universe can be filled with morally blind (truly neutral but also nonjudgemental) forces. And sometimes even base things paradox8cally fulfill our basic needs to be accepted, nurtured and included. Life and consciousness is still the solution of acid and base. Acknowledgement and acceptance.
Evolution as such has been a long thread (tapestry, really) of interactions & reactions based on attraction & repulsion. Love and hate.
If you are with someone who makes you unbelievably happy, it is likely it is entirely your choice. Maybe you are getting hate from others because they see how happy you are and it was meant to be . In a way your ancestors have been in your corner this entire time, as love can also be a coincidence, almost kismet.
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To exist today, you require an exponentially growing number of genealogical ancestors doubling every generation: \(2^{n}\) (where \(n\) is the number of generations back). For example, a single generation (parents) requires 2 people, 10 generations requires 1,024, and 12 generations back (about 300–400 years) requires 4,096 ancestors. [1, 2, 3, 4, 5]
A generational breakdown of the math:
Why the math eventually breaks down:
If you go back roughly 30 to 40 generations (to around 1000–1200 AD), the mathematical formula suggests you would have hundreds of millions or billions of ancestors—which is vastly more people than were actually alive on Earth at that time. [1, 2, 3]
This is resolved by a concept called pedigree collapse. Because human populations were smaller, distant cousins often married and had children. This means one person can occupy multiple spots in your family tree, and the same individuals will appear multiple times across different ancestral lines. [1, 2, 3, 4, 5]
To explore your own lineage and see exactly where and how your family branches overlap, you can use online services like FamilySearch or Ancestry to map out your generational trees. [1, 2]. -
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Of all your thousands of ancestors' choices which resulted in the very unlikely you, of all the chains and threads of reactions in the Universe, one either arrives at or works towards the now. And even better if it's the one thing you know makes you happy, deep in your soul. Your true balanced purpose and healthy relationship. (Aside, Ikigawa can help balance purpose, happiness, and wealth, it's just the healthy relationship with the inner and outer self.)
As myself 10-years-prior, I would say -
It all comes down to love.
Love is a choice.
Life is a choice.
It all comes down to love.
Signed,
Katrina S Fedukowski
Technochroma
5/19/2026
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